Hello peeps. It's been a long time since I blogged anything new. 5 months since I last blogged. So for the few months , I been through alot of shits. The few months was really tough for me. I got into friendship problems and got depressed because of that. I lost people who I thought was going to be there for me forever. Maybe not lost but well the feelings faded. This incident affected me very deeply but luckily because of this. I met new friends who are there for me. Who promised to always there for me, who have shown me that even though I lost people , I gained better people. Such examples are Jasper - My dog buddy , Theophilus - My soulmate , Qifang , Jermaine and many more. I thank you guys from the bottom of heart okay. Thanks for being there when i needed someone , thanks for cheering me up and freeing up ur time to talk to me even though I was sad almost every day??? HAHA. Thanks for knocking some sense into me and thanks for being my friend and dog buddy and soulmate. Lastly, thanks for always telling me stupid things and just making me laugh with your lame jokes (especially theo HAHA) and just basically being sarcastic to me.(true friends do that yo) Remember, I'll be there if you guys need me.
So enough of what I've been going through. It's time for what happened on 21st September 2015. Yesterday was a special day for me! Do you know why? Obviously you don't. Haha okay so yesterday was my first ever staycation with my polymates and yes it was really fun. We did had alot of fun yesterday from playing cards to "tau-poking" each other and drinking and to not sleeping and listening to each other problems and just talking basically about life. Basically yesterday was a very happy day for me. I dont feel the stress or anything.It was one of the days that I truly feel relaxed and just happy.I wish I could stay there longer. Even though it was a short staycation but I really enjoyed it except for the part where we had to waste some much time finding the place HAHA. I will post the photos when I have the time.
So to end off the post , Life has been not that smooth sailing for me but I'm slowly healing and I've got good friends , brothers and people who are there for me. That's enough for me. One day everything is gonna be alright and I also know that my friendships with these people will last. I just know it.
Friends come and go but true friends stay when you're at your lowest and lift you up to the highest.
Bye ,
Shawn.
Hello. I've read your blog many times and I must say, true friends that stay are hard to find. However, it seems to me that your friends are not the ones who drifted away from you, but it is YOU that is pushing them away. I'm an extremely quiet person, and I have trouble making friends. So friends that I make are rare and few. However, I am also someone who has lost touch with many that I wanted to stand beside when my hair turns grey and my legs start to lose their strength. And I KNOW FOR A FACT, that people who has lost someone important to them will NOT move on so quickly. When I had lost touch with my bast friend, who was also my pillar of strength, it took literal months before I could let another person into my life like that. If you are able to let go of special people so quickly and replace them with others, maybe you were never as close as you had originally thought.
ReplyDeleteOn that thought, have you tried to talk to those that you thought were "drifting away" from you? Is there another factor that perhaps you overlooked when you labeled them as betrayers? Is there a reason for their departure? Have you tried to look at it from their angle, Shawn?
And no, I am neither of the people that you have mentioned in this blog. Not the ones you lost, neither am I the ones that you proclaimed were your "true friends".
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